In her book, "The Art of Connection," Susan C. Young explores the motivations behind why some individuals highlight others' flaws or mistakes. This behavior often stems from a need for validation or superiority, as individuals attempt to assert their own correctness by pointing out someone else's errors. Such actions can stem from insensitivity and a self-centered mindset, where the focus is more about winning an argument than fostering understanding.

This tendency to criticize ultimately harms relationships and creates negative repercussions. Instead of building rapport and kinship, this approach can fracture connections and leave emotional damage in its wake. Young emphasizes the importance of nurturing positive interactions to create a more supportive and enriching environment for everyone involved.