In Orhan Pamuk's book "Snow," Kadife offers a poignant observation about the differing motivations behind suicide among men and women. She suggests that women often take their lives in pursuit of a desire or goal they hope to achieve, highlighting a sense of yearning or aspiration. Conversely, men's suicides are depicted as a response to despair, stemming from a belief that they have lost any chance of attaining their aspirations, leading to hopelessness.

This distinction underscores a deeper commentary on gender and emotional struggles, suggesting that while women may be driven by a search for fulfillment, men may succumb to the weight of existential despair. Kadife's reflections compel readers to consider the nuanced emotional landscapes of both genders and how societal pressures and expectations impact their mental well-being.