In her book, "Bonk: The Curious Coupling of Science and Sex," author Mary Roach explores the complexities of sexual pleasure and orgasm in women. She notes that many women who experience orgasms during intercourse without direct clitoral stimulation tend to share a common perspective: the specifics of their partner’s actions during sex are less critical to their pleasure, as long as he maintains control and doesn't finish too early.

This insight highlights the nuances of sexual experiences and emphasizes the importance of the overall experience over the technicalities of technique. Roach's observation sheds light on how communication and timing can greatly influence sexual satisfaction, indicating that there is more to female pleasure than just physical stimulation.