In "The Bonesetter's Daughter," Amy Tan explores the themes of desire and reality through the lens of storytelling. The book highlights the dangers of wishful thinking, particularly in the context of writing and expressing one's hopes and dreams. Characters grapple with their aspirations, often leading to conflicts between what they wish for and what truly exists in their lives.
Tan emphasizes that writing solely about wishes can create a distorted perception of reality, leading to disappointment and unfulfilled dreams. This idea resonates throughout the narrative, illustrating how the act of writing can become a coping mechanism yet may also trap individuals in a cycle of unrealistic expectations and desires.