You think because he doesn't love you that you are worthless. You think because he doesn't want you anymore that he is right- that his judgement and opinion of you are correct. If he throws you out, then you are garbage. You think he belongs to you because you want to belong to him. Hagar, don't. It's a bad word, 'belong.' Especially when you put it with somebody you love. Love shouldn't be like that.
The quote reflects feelings of worthlessness that can arise from unreciprocated love. It suggests that individuals might believe their value diminishes when they are rejected or discarded by someone they care for. This mindset leads to the distorted notion that another person's opinion defines one's self-worth. Such beliefs can be harmful, creating a cycle of emotional dependence and self-doubt.
Moreover, the quote warns against the unhealthy notion of 'belonging' in romantic relationships. It emphasizes that love should not involve ownership or possession, as this can lead to toxic dynamics. Instead, love should be based on mutual respect and autonomy, rather than the need to be validated by someone else's affections. It's a powerful reminder to cultivate self-worth independent of others' judgments.
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