In "Reading Lolita in Tehran," Azar Nafisi explores the complexities of personal betrayal and societal expectations. She reflects on the idea that individuals often undermine their own values and identities, acting against what they truly believe in the pursuit of acceptance or safety. This introspection highlights the internal struggles faced by individuals living under oppressive regimes, where conformity can lead to self-betrayal.

Nafisi eloquently conveys that the greatest betrayal often comes from within, as we compromise our beliefs for external validation. Her statement about playing "Judas to our own Christ" emphasizes the painful reality of sacrificing one's true self. This theme resonates throughout her memoir, illustrating the profound impact of literature in reclaiming one's identity amidst societal pressures.