"Conduct Unbecoming" is a poignant exploration of the experiences of military personnel grappling with the aftermath of severe trauma, including rape and torture. The book sheds light on the often-hidden struggles faced by those in command, revealing the psychological toll that such experiences can have on them. It delves into the concepts of honor and conduct within military culture, questioning how these ideals hold up against the realities of abuse and its long-term impacts on mental health. The author provides personal testimonies and accounts from veterans, showcasing the profound effects of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) stemming from these traumatic experiences. These narratives highlight the complexities of seeking help within a system that may prioritize discipline and reputation over the well-being of individuals. The book emphasizes the need for systemic change to better support those affected by such atrocities.