"The Vanishing American Adult" by Ben Sasse explores the crisis of coming-of-age in contemporary America. Sasse argues that many young people are struggling to transition into adulthood due to societal changes that have diminished their sense of responsibility and independence. He emphasizes that the ease of modern life, with its emphasis on technology and instant gratification, has led to a generation that lacks the essential skills and experiences traditionally associated with self-reliance.
The book highlights the importance of cultivating resilience and character in young adults. Sasse advocates for a cultural shift that prioritizes difficult experiences, such as hard work and personal challenges, as vital to building a strong foundation for adulthood. He criticizes a system that often shelters young people from these necessary encounters, suggesting that facing adversity is crucial for developing confidence and competence.
In his call to action, Sasse encourages parents, educators, and communities to foster environments where young people can engage in meaningful work and develop a sense of purpose. He suggests practical solutions, such as promoting apprenticeships, encouraging outdoor activities, and emphasizing the value of personal accountability. Through this transformation, Sasse believes we can prepare future generations to thrive in an increasingly complex world.