Love is this elusive bird," he said. "You're the lifelong bird-watcher, looking...

Love is this elusive bird," he said. "You're the lifelong bird-watcher, looking for this rare red-plumed quail people spend entire lives trying to see for three seconds in a cherry tree on a mountaintop in Japan."
"You're mistaking love for perfection," I said. "Real love when it's there? It's just there. It's a metal folding chair.