The author Milan Kundera explores the distinction between loving someone and the physical aspect of intimacy in "The Unbearable Lightness of Being." He suggests that these two feelings are not only different but can be seen as contrasting. While lust can attract a person to many, love is a deeper, more personal connection directed towards one individual.

Kundera emphasizes that love is about sharing dreams and life with a specific person, indicating that true love transcends mere physical attraction. This concept highlights the importance of emotional intimacy and connection in a romantic relationship, suggesting that love is far more profound than simple carnal desire.