A bully is someone who demands your laughter at their expense, irrespective of whether what they present is genuinely funny. This behavior is a clear indicator of their bullying nature. They impose their will on others, requiring compliance through manipulation rather than genuine connection or humor.

This perspective highlights how bullies operate not just through force but through social pressure, insisting that you engage with them on their terms. It illustrates the emotional intricacies in interactions with bullies, revealing the discomfort felt when one is coerced into laughter or approval that doesn't feel sincere.