In his book "Calypso," David Sedaris discusses how many expressions now considered outdated or inappropriate were originally created by Black people. These terms have since been appropriated by white people who continue to use them long after their relevance has diminished. Sedaris uses the examples of phrases like "my bad" and "I've got your back" to illustrate his point.
He expresses discomfort with this cultural borrowing, likening the situation to amusing yet cringeworthy moments, such as sitcom grandmothers celebrating together. This reflection leads him to openly confront the tension of cultural appropriation and the resulting shame he feels on behalf of his race.