A woman means by Unselfishness chiefly taking trouble for others; a man means not giving trouble to others...thus, while the woman thinks of doing good offices and the man of respecting other people's rights, each sex, without any obvious unreason, can and does regard the other as radically selfish.
C.S. Lewis highlights the differing perceptions of unselfishness between men and women. For women, unselfishness often manifests as taking on the burdens of others, such as offering help and support. Men, on the other hand, tend to view it as a matter of refraining from causing inconvenience or trouble to others. This fundamental difference leads to misunderstandings, as each gender may see the other's behavior as self-centered.
This disparity in understanding...