Act with fortitude and honor," he wrote to a distraught friend in serious financial and legal trouble of the man's own making. "If you cannot reasonably hope for a favorable extrication, do not plunge deeper. Have the courage to make a full stop.
In "The Ego Is the Enemy," Ryan Holiday emphasizes the importance of strength and integrity during challenging times. He reminds a friend facing significant self-inflicted hardships to confront the situation with bravery and honor. Rather than exacerbating their troubles, he advises them to pause and reassess their situation if there is no realistic chance for improvement.
Holiday's message suggests that it is crucial to recognize when to stop pursuing a difficult path. Instead of digging a deeper hole, he advocates for the courage to accept the present circumstances and to make decisive, thoughtful choices for a better future.
