The question to ask, when you feel pride, then, is this: What am I missing right now that a more humble person might see? What am I avoiding, or running from, with my bluster, franticness, and embellishments? It is far better to ask and answer these questions now, with the stakes still low, than it will be later. It's worth saying: just
In Ryan Holiday's book "The Ego Is the Enemy," he emphasizes the importance of humility as a counterbalance to pride. He suggests that one should reflect on moments of pride and consider what they might be overlooking that someone more humble could recognize. This introspection can reveal the flaws in our perceptions, helping us address issues before they escalate.
Holiday argues that confronting these questions early on is crucial, as it allows individuals to gain clarity and avoid the pitfalls of ego-driven behavior. Acknowledging our limitations and seeking a truthful perspective can lead to personal growth and better decision-making, ultimately resulting in a more grounded and authentic self.
