In her book "The Art of Being," Susan C. Young discusses the necessity of sometimes engaging in superficial interactions. She acknowledges that there are moments when individuals need to adapt their behavior to align with social norms, underscoring the importance of fitting in to foster harmony and connection. This approach helps individuals navigate various social landscapes more effectively.

Young emphasizes that while authenticity is valued, there are situations where adjusting one’s demeanor is essential. By "going along to get along," people can create positive interactions that may lead to deeper relationships over time. This balancing act between authenticity and adaptability is key to optimizing one's presence and making a meaningful impact in different environments.