Again she repeated that she would never get married, never ever. She said that for her a man always existed in books, that she would spend the rest of her life with Mr. Darcy-even in the books, there were few men for her.
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In "Reading Lolita in Tehran," the protagonist expresses a strong aversion to marriage, declaring that she will never marry. Her perspective is shaped by her love for literature, as she finds the idea of a man more appealing when imagined through the pages of books rather than real life. She feels more connected to fictional characters like Mr. Darcy, showcasing her preference for the romanticized versions of men found in literature rather than pursuing real relationships.

This sentiment highlights the impact of literature on one's worldview and personal choices. The protagonist's connection to fictional men reflects a deeper commentary on her struggles with reality, the limitations in her real-life experiences, and a yearning for a more idealized version of love that books provide. Her declarations speak to the authenticity found in literary relationships, contrasting sharply with the complexities of real-world interactions.

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