All our lives my brother and I were caught by the fictions my parents told us-fictions about themselves as well as others. Each wanted us to judge the other in his or her favor. Sometimes I felt cheated, as if they never allowed us to have a story of our own. It is only now that I understand how much their story was also mine.
📖 Azar Nafisi
In "Things I've Been Silent About," Azar Nafisi reflects on the impact of her parents' narratives on her and her brother's lives. She reveals how their fabricated stories created a divide, compelling them to choose sides and evaluate the characters of their parents. This constant pressure made her feel deprived of an authentic narrative of her own, as the truths and lies intertwined around her upbringing.
However, Nafisi comes to realize that these fictions were not just her parents' creations; they were part of her own story too. She recognizes the complexities of familial relationships, understanding how their experiences shaped her understanding of identity and reality. Ultimately, these realizations help her embrace her past and the nuances of her family's influence on her life.
