In her book "Almost Everything: Notes on Hope," Anne Lamott explores the common struggles and vulnerabilities that people face. She emphasizes that regardless of how composed someone appears on the outside, they are likely grappling with their own issues, fears, and insecurities. This shared human experience highlights that many individuals feel broken or lost, yet have an inherent capacity for joy.

Lamott advises against comparing one's internal struggles to others' external appearances, as this can exacerbate one’s own feelings of inadequacy. Her reflections serve as a reminder that everyone is dealing with their own challenges, and fostering empathy towards ourselves and others can lead to a more hopeful perspective.