In "Under Magnolia: A Southern Memoir," Frances Mayes explores the societal pressures that contribute to the prolonged state of girlhood among women, particularly as they age. She illustrates how women are often expected to maintain an innocent facade, which can restrict their personal growth and self-expression. This expectation can create a kind of emotional vise, limiting their opportunities and experiences as they transition into later stages of life.

Mayes poignantly captures the struggles of women navigating these pressures, suggesting that the notion of innocence is sometimes used to undermine their maturity. By examining her own life and those of others, she reveals the complexities of growing up in a culture that often views women more as 'girls,' regardless of their age, leading to a deeper reflection on identity and empowerment.