And the joys I've felt have not always been joyous. I could have lived differently. When I was your age, my grandfather bought me a ruby bracelet. It as too big for me an would slide up and down my arm. It was almost a necklace. He later told me that he had asked the jeweler make that way. Its size was supposed to be a symbol of his love. More rubies, more love. But I could not wear it comfortably. I could not wear it at all. So here is the point of everything I have been trying to say. IF I were to give a bracelet to you, now, I would measure your wrist twice
The narrator reflects on the complexities of emotions, recognizing that joy can also be intertwined with discomfort. They share a personal memory about a ruby bracelet gifted by their grandfather, which, though intended as a symbol of love, was impractical for them to wear due to its size. This highlights the idea that love is not just about grand gestures but also about understanding and meeting each other's needs.
By recounting this experience, the narrator emphasizes the importance of careful consideration in relationships. If they were to gift a bracelet now, they would ensure it fits perfectly, symbolizing a more thoughtful approach to love and connection. This notion suggests that true affection involves being attentive to the other person's individuality and comfort.
