In the excerpt, the narrator reflects on Phillip's character, noting that he stands out among typical seventeen-year-old boys. Unlike others, Phillip possesses good judgment and demonstrates a genuine concern for her well-being, attributes that are increasingly hard to find in his peers.
The narrator admits she isn't an expert in understanding boys but feels she is gaining insight over time. This self-awareness highlights her growth and the importance she places on meaningful qualities in her relationships while navigating the complexities of teenage life.