The narrator explains his position when family disputes arise, emphasizing that he tends to be excluded from the chaos. While family members engage in loud arguments, such as when Aunties bellow at each other and letters circulates detailing Cousin Mabel's strange behavior, he remains on the sidelines. This detachment seems to be a benefit of his status as a bachelor, which his family views with a mix of amusement and condescension.

His remark about being seen as a "half-witted bachelor" highlights a humorous self-awareness. Despite the family’s perception, he finds solace in not being embroiled in their conflicts. The narrator appreciates the calm that comes with his bachelorhood, viewing it as an advantage in avoiding the tumultuous exchanges typical of family gatherings.