In the book "You Must Remember This" by Joyce Carol Oates, the author shares an insightful quote from Abraham Lincoln. When a journalist inquired about his feelings following a failed election, Lincoln likened his emotions to that of a small child who has stubbed his toe in the dark. This metaphor captures the deep sense of disappointment and pain he experienced at the time.

Lincoln expressed that he was too mature to react with tears, yet the hurt was significant enough to prevent laughter. This reflection illustrates the complex emotions that can arise from setbacks, blending a sense of loss with a poignant acknowledgment of resilience in the face of adversity.