All these questions that we are directed to love to measure, test, test and save love are perhaps to shorten love as well as everything. Perhaps the reason we can't love is that we want to love so much, that is, to ask for something to give ourselves to him without asking him to be with him without making any requests from the other person.
The passage reflects on the complexities and challenges of love, suggesting that our intensely analytical approach to it may undermine its very essence. By measuring and testing love, we risk reducing it to mere calculations and expectations, ultimately losing its depth and spontaneity. This desire for certainty in love can lead us to seek outcomes without genuinely engaging with our partners.
