In Haruki Murakami's novel, the protagonist Tsukuru Tazaki grapples with the lasting impact of his past experiences. Even if he tries to conceal or suppress these memories, they remain an integral part of his narrative. The idea conveyed is that one cannot simply erase or change their story, as doing so would equate to a form of self-destruction.
This perspective emphasizes the importance of acknowledging and accepting one's history. The act of recording one's story becomes essential, suggesting that it is through understanding our past that we can move forward without losing our essence.