Because that was what we all did-we searched for labels for people until we found one we thought might fit, and then we sighed in relief that we had placed them.
In the book "True" by Erin McCarthy, the author explores the human tendency to categorize others. People often seek out labels to understand those around them, searching for a descriptor that feels appropriate. Once they find a fitting label, it brings a sense of relief as if they have successfully defined the person.
This behavior highlights a common social dynamic where individuals feel more comfortable when they can neatly categorize others. However, it also raises questions about the complexity of identity and the limitations of such labels in truly capturing a person's essence.
