Because we so profoundly personalize success, we miss opportunities to lift others onto the top rung. We make rules that frustrate achievement. We prematurely write off people as failures. We are too much in awe of those who succeed and far too dismissive of those who fail. And, most of all, we become much too passive. We overlook just how large a role we all play - and by "we" I mean society - in determining who makes it and who doesn't.
Malcolm Gladwell argues that our perspective on success is overly individualized, leading us to miss crucial opportunities to help others achieve their goals. By focusing solely on personal accomplishments, we create barriers that hinder achievement and often label individuals as failures too quickly. Our admiration for successful figures can overshadow our responsibility to support those who struggle. This narrow viewpoint can prevent a more inclusive and supportive environment for success.
Gladwell emphasizes that society plays a significant role in shaping who succeeds and who does not, highlighting the importance of collective action. Instead of being passive observers, we must recognize our influence and strive to uplift others, creating pathways to success for a broader range of individuals. By changing our approach, we can foster a more equitable landscape where everyone's potential is nurtured and valued.