In her book "Hard Listening: The Greatest Rock Band Ever (of Authors) Tells All," Amy Tan explores the unique experiences of being a dominatrix, highlighting how this role provided her with a profound sense of empowerment. She reflects on how the confidence gained from this position allowed her to express herself freely, particularly in her musical endeavors, without the burden of self-doubt.

This journey reveals a connection between power, creativity, and personal expression. By embracing her role, Tan discovered that the freedom to perform—especially through singing—was enhanced, allowing her to fully embrace her passions and showcase her talents without reservation.