But shall we inspect what we see beyond? he went on. Please, after you… Elspeth thought: I am so fortunate. I am married to a man who says Please, after you. How fortunate is that? And she thought of a friend who did not even have a husband, although she dearly would have loved one, and how her life would be transformed, would be made perfect, if she had one who said, Please, after you or indeed by one who did not even say that, who said nothing, in fact. Bless you, my darling, she thought. And thank you for this: for this house, for our marriage, for our three boys, for bothering to say Please, after you.
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Elspeth reflects on her good fortune in her marriage, particularly appreciating her husband's polite nature, exemplified by his saying, "Please, after you." This simple gesture signifies his respect and thoughtfulness, which she deeply values. In her contemplation, Elspeth draws a contrast with a friend who longs for companionship, highlighting how much a kind partner could change her friend's life. She recognizes that even a small act of courtesy can have a profound impact on one's sense of happiness and fulfillment.

Feeling grateful, Elspeth not only acknowledges the warmth in her own relationship but also considers the broader human desire for connection and kindness. She appreciates the blessings in her life: their home, marriage, and children, realizing that her husband’s politeness adds to her sense of security and contentment. This moment of gratitude emphasizes the importance of small acts of kindness in relationships and how they contribute to overall happiness, illuminating the contrast between her life and that of her friend.

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