In Curtis Sittenfeld's novel "Eligible," the protagonist reflects on her relationship with Jasper and discovers a single aspect she'd like to change. This realization brings her a sense of relief, akin to recognizing that the only item forgotten for a trip was something trivial, like perfume, instead of something crucial. The comparison highlights the sense of comfort found in minor imperfections within relationships.
This perspective allows the character to appreciate the overall positive aspects of her partnership with Jasper. By identifying a slight flaw rather than a major issue, she feels more secure and content, suggesting that even relationships with minor quirks can still be deeply fulfilling.