In society, there is a widespread belief that fun equates to relaxation. However, this notion can be misleading, as genuine enjoyment often involves engagement and stimulation rather than passivity. Activities considered fun may actually require effort and energy, challenging the assumption that they should be easy or stress-free.

Iain M. Banks, in "The Player of Games," suggests that if one’s idea of fun aligns with pure relaxation, they may not be approaching it correctly. True fun often demands participation, creativity, and sometimes even a degree of challenge, emphasizing that enjoyment can be found in more active and complex experiences.