In "The Bonesetter's Daughter," Ruth grapples with the concept of dementia, finding it difficult to reconcile the elegance of the word with the devastation it brings. She reflects on how the term seems almost enchanting, yet its association with a heartbreaking illness starkly contrasts its beautiful sound.

Ruth draws a parallel between dementia and the mythological character Dementia, suggesting that this name is worthy of a goddess. Just as Demeter forgot to change the seasons, Ruth recognizes that dementia leads to the loss of memories and identity, making it a tragic and poignant topic in her life.