The author reflects on the profound pain of divorce, highlighting that, despite its emotional severity, it doesn't lead to one's physical demise. The intense feelings of betrayal—when a partner who vowed lifelong commitment reveals they never loved you—should be overwhelming. Yet, life continues, forcing one to grapple with feelings of confusion and disbelief regarding the relationship that has just ended.

The narrative conveys a sense of denial and fear, suggesting that the truth about the relationship was perhaps always evident, but was avoided out of fear. This kind of fear, the author implies, can cloud judgment and lead to a painful reckoning with reality that is hard to face, yet must be confronted to move forward.