The speaker reflects on the impracticality of one person being responsible for another's well-being continuously. They raise concerns about dependence in a potential marriage, questioning who would look after them if the partner were at work or on a trip. This sense of reliance could lead to an imbalance in the relationship, undermining equality and causing frustration.
They argue that such a dynamic might eventually become burdensome, with the partner feeling trapped or resentful. The speaker's apprehensions highlight the importance of autonomy and mutual respect in relationships, suggesting that true companionship should not resemble a caregiver-patient scenario, as that would not resolve their personal struggles.