The knowledge of truth does not relieve the sadness we feel when losing a loved one. Neither the truth, nor sincerity, nor the strength, nor the love are able to cure that sadness. The only thing that can be done is to cross this pain waiting for something from him, although everything one has learned does not serve him at all the next time the sadness visits him in improviso.
In Haruki Murakami's "Norwegian Wood," the author reflects on the profound sadness experienced when losing someone dear. Knowledge of the truth and personal strengths do little to alleviate this grief, highlighting the limitations of understanding and emotional resilience in the face of loss. Grief is a daunting experience that cannot be easily resolved through rational thought or heartfelt emotions alone.
The passage emphasizes that coping with pain is not about finding immediate answers or remedies. Instead, it’s about enduring the sorrow while holding hope for healing. Each encounter with sadness is unique, and past wisdom often feels inadequate when confronted with new waves of grief, reminding us that emotional experiences can be unpredictable and deeply personal.