Even putting aside the culturally indoctrinated terror that someone in America will assume that two men engage in sodomy behind barely closed doors, there simply isn't an elegant way of asking someone of your gender to hang out for the first time.
This quote delves into the complex social stigmas and subconscious biases that influence personal interactions, particularly among men. It highlights how cultural norms and fears—especially in a society that often associates masculinity with toughness and heterosexuality—can create barriers to forming genuine connections. The mention of 'indoctrinated terror' reflects the deep-rooted anxieties instilled by societal expectations, which can lead individuals to feel hesitant or even fearful when attempting to reach out or...