In "A Prayer for Owen Meany" by John Irving, there is a prevailing belief that the challenging environment at Gravesend Academy will have a taming influence on boys like Noah and Simon. The assumption is that the rigorous academic demands and strict rules will wear them down, making them more compliant. The community feels that this exhaustive routine, with its arduous homework and strict dress codes, will help instill discipline and civility in them.
Additionally, the limits placed on their social interactions, particularly regarding contact with girls, are seen as protective measures. This structured environment is expected to dull their wildness and steer them towards becoming more respectable young men. Ultimately, everyone hopes that through this demanding education, the boys will learn to adhere to societal expectations and grow up to be more responsible and subdued individuals.