Everything was coming together by coming apart . . . It is the most difficult Zen practice to leave people to their destiny, even though it's painful - just loving them, and breathing with them, and distracting them in a sweet way, and laughing with them . . . if something was not my problem, I probably did not have the solution.
by Anne Lamott (0 Reviews)
In "Some Assembly Required," Anne Lamott reflects on the challenges of practicing Zen, especially when it involves letting loved ones navigate their own paths. She emphasizes the pain of watching others face their destinies while trying to maintain compassion. Instead of trying to fix their problems, she finds solace in loving and supporting them, even if it means distracting them with humor and shared moments.
Lamott acknowledges that true support comes from understanding our limits; we cannot solve every issue for others. It highlights the importance of accepting that we are not responsible for others' journeys, reinforcing the idea that sometimes, just being present is enough. The message emphasizes love and acceptance in the face of personal challenges.
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