In Nick Hornby's "High Fidelity," he reflects on how modern life affects our emotional states. He suggests that we often experience intense feelings, swinging between despair and sheer joy, making it difficult to find stability in our emotions. This constant fluctuation can complicate our ability to appreciate happiness as a consistent state.

The author posits that those who experience such emotional extremes may struggle to maintain a balanced relationship. The pursuit of peak emotions can overshadow the bliss found in stable companionship, leading to a disconnect from simple joys and contentment in our connections with others.