In "High Fidelity," Nick Hornby highlights a societal concern regarding the influence of violence on children, particularly through guns and violent media. Parents often express fear that exposure to such elements may foster a culture of violence among the youth. This reflects a common anxiety about the potential for harmful behaviors stemming from these experiences.

However, Hornby points out an overlooked aspect: the extensive exposure children have to music filled with themes of heartbreak and suffering. Despite the emotional weight of these songs, there seems to be less concern from adults about their impact on young listeners. This contrast raises questions about how society perceives different forms of media and their effects on emotional development and resilience in kids.