Give me time," she said mockingly. "That's the anthem of the married man. Give me time while I make my excuses, give me time while I sort out my head. Just another week, just another decade, just till my wife understands. Be reasonable, give me time, just till my children grow up, give me time. And what do you suppose time will give to me?
In Hilary Mantel's "Every Day Is Mother's Day," a character critiques the excuses often made by married men seeking to justify their actions. The phrase "give me time" becomes symbolic of their reluctance to confront responsibilities or make decisions, as they rely on delaying tactics to navigate their complicated emotions and situations.
The mockery in her tone highlights the frustration and irony of waiting for resolution, as she questions what time truly offers. Rather than facilitating growth or understanding, it may just prolong unresolved issues, indicating that time alone cannot solve deeper problems or provide clarity in relationships.
