In her book "Why Not Me?", Mindy Kaling emphasizes that negativity and criticism often come with attention. She suggests that those who may dislike or criticize you are, in a way, engaging with you and your work. This perspective can help reframe the experience of encountering haters, turning it into an opportunity to recognize the focus and visibility you're gaining, even if it’s not entirely positive.

Kaling's insights encourage readers to adopt a resilient mindset when facing detractors. Rather than allowing negativity to deter them, they should see it as a sign that they are making an impact, however controversial it might be. This viewpoint fosters self-acceptance and confidence, reinforcing the idea that every audience reaction can serve a purpose, even if it stems from disdain.