In "Dark Disciple" by Christie Golden, a character reflects on the complex emotions of the Jedi. The quote highlights that while Jedi are expected to manage their emotions, it is natural for them to feel grief. The character observes that coping with pain through unhealthy means, like alcohol or aggression, differs from the Jedi's ideal emotional balance.
The exchange suggests a tension between the Jedi's beliefs and real human experiences. It implies that even those who strive for inner peace can struggle with their emotions, leading to coping methods that do not align with their values or teachings.