In Curtis Sittenfeld's book "Eligible," the character Darcy observes the unrealistic standards placed on women in the city where she lives. She points out that the local perceptions of sophistication and beauty are skewed. For instance, a woman considered sophisticated may simply have taken a trip to Paris in college, while being labeled beautiful might only mean she is less overweight than others.
Darcy's commentary highlights a tendency to judge women based on relative comparisons rather than objective qualities. This reveals a broader commentary on societal expectations and the flawed grading system that overlooks true character and individuality, emphasizing a critical view of how women are perceived and valued.