In "One Step Behind" by Henning Mankell, the protagonist reflects on his understanding of friendship, which he realizes has been based on a lack of hostility rather than deeper connections. This perspective reveals a rather superficial approach to relationships, suggesting that he equates friendship with merely not having conflicts with others.

This realization prompts the character to reconsider what true friendship means. Instead of having friends that simply coexist without discord, he begins to seek more meaningful interactions that involve mutual respect, support, and genuine connection.