In her book "Passion and Purity," Elisabeth Elliot explores the idea that human beings have an intrinsic desire for stability and commitment in their relationships. She argues that the casual approach to sex, characterized by indiscriminate physical encounters, leads to a loss of something deeply valuable. This loss reflects a neglect of the emotional and spiritual significance that intimate connections can hold.

Elliot emphasizes that when virginity and purity are not cherished, life can become dull and monotonous. She believes that the sacredness of sexual relationships is essential for deep fulfillment, and the abandonment of these values results in a shallow experience of love and life. By prioritizing transient pleasures over enduring connections, we risk forfeiting our capacity for genuine intimacy and joy.