In her book "Bad Feminist: Essays," Roxane Gay emphasizes that feminism should center around supporting women's choices, even when those choices differ from our personal preferences. She advocates for a broader understanding of feminism that respects the diverse experiences and decisions of women across various cultures. Gay acknowledges the importance of acknowledging these differences rather than imposing a singular view of what women's equality should entail.

Gay argues that women globally should have access to equality and freedom, but she recognizes the complexity surrounding these ideals. She firmly believes that it is not her place to dictate what equality and freedom should look like for women in different cultural contexts. This perspective highlights the necessity of listening to and empowering women, allowing them to define their own paths toward equality and liberation.