In her book "Why Not Me?", Mindy Kaling draws a striking analogy between hosting a potluck dinner and a teenage boy's awkward fear of buying condoms. She suggests that attempting to organize a dinner party should come with a level of commitment to the responsibilities involved, much like relationships require courage and effort.

Kaling argues that if someone is not willing to provide all the necessary dishes for a dinner gathering, then they may not be fully prepared for the challenges of hosting. This reflects a broader commentary on taking responsibility and embracing the full experience of social hosting.