I can't explain that, except to say there's release in knowing the truth no matter how anguishing it is. You come finally to the irreducible thing, and there's nothing left to do but pick it up and hold it. Then, at least, you can enter the severe mercy of acceptance.
In "The Mermaid Chair," Sue Monk Kidd explores the complexities of facing painful truths and the liberation that comes with acceptance. The protagonist grapples with her emotions and circumstances, ultimately realizing that embracing the truth—no matter how distressing—brings a form of release. This recognition allows her to confront the core of her struggles, leading to a more profound understanding of her situation.
Kidd emphasizes that by acknowledging these harsh realities, one can achieve a stoic acceptance of life. This “severe mercy” signifies a deep acceptance that goes beyond mere resignation; it is about holding onto the truth and growing from it. In doing so, the characters gain strength and resilience, learning to navigate their lives with a sense of clarity and purpose.